I text Jay today to tell him about my Thurs doctor appointment. I got a text back reading"I would marry you if you were not pregnant, I'm not ready for a child, not a good time. I'm sorry."
So I called this MF up, told him that I would file with my attorney general for child support and that he needed to decide whether he was going to have any visitation with MY child. I was very clear that there would be no one foot in, one foot out bull shit.
I was not expecting this. Two weeks ago the man was begging to marry me!! How do you just change your mind overnight and bail on your kid and his mother. I did not get pregnant by myself and I will not go down alone. If he wants things to go this way, he needs to be ready for a fight. My father used to say that the only thing worse than an ex wife was a baby mama. Well Jay is about to get a BIG taste of that truth.
This day just keeps getting better and better. New lesson learned - wealthy, attractive, single men suck. Never, under any circumstances, let him not wear a condom. Birth control or otherwise, just say no.